“The universe loves you as you are”
This is a simple positive mantra but it touches the hearts of many people because this is what we most want to receive – unconditional love.
Unconditional love is love that has warmth, stability, security, and always accepts you as you are.
Unconditional love is rooted in the love and light within each of us. To love unconditionally, we need to have understanding first. Understand what the person is going through, understand the character, understand that those are the lessons that they need to learn for them to become their better version. When we understand, we can accept. When we accept, we will take the lesson in it and feel grateful to them.
This is completely different from conditional love. It is a love that demands, expects; a fragile love that can be easily broken when someone/something is not as expected. A love of lack, when we always need others to give/make up for the wounded parts of us.
Ask yourself, do you love your children, love your parents or love yourself in a conditional way? So when they are not what we want, can we accept them?
Many young people today can be influenced in part by the conditional love of their parents. Many parents need their children to achieve this or that achievement even though their child doesn’t want it, not feeling the joy even after achieving it. Many parents will say, “No, I did it because I took care of my baby.” But parents need to understand that if you follow that predetermined path, will your child be happy or not, and can live a full life when unable to follow his passion or talent, this is understanding. Understand that parents will have the right to love, nurture their children to develop further.
Artist Kali Dan said during the art therapy experience:
“You need to follow your own talent, then you can inspire someone, you will be full of energy, to the fullest. “
And look at yourself, both as parents and as children, as friends, as teachers,… are you in love and accepting everyone around you unconditionally? If not, where is the cause, it has nothing to do with the trauma you have experienced or not. Then heal those wounds.
“Healing the relationship with yourself will heal the relationships around”Give yourself that unconditional love, give yourself fullness, let the relationships around no longer need to fill you. In return, let us and everyone be free to be ourselves, to explore life and ourselves.
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