Why do tragedies happen in life?
Where there is no wisdom, there will be drama. We often think that having a family member hurts us, makes us suffer. But you need to understand that we are all part of the conflict, part of collective family karma.
Don’t let yourself fall into a spiral of complaining, whining like a victim, but we can absolutely take action to release the family’s collective karma. Therefore, we should not only focus on making money for our family, but also cultivating wisdom to support our loved ones spiritually.
Why should families meditate together?
The Full Moon phase is a special time for families to have conscious activities together. Families that sit and practice meditation together, then express what’s deep in their hearts, that family will receive many blessings, purifying karma.
But many families do not practice meditation together because they think meditation is a religious activity for monks. Master Ojas reminded that :
“Meditation does not belong to any religion. When we practice meditation, we return to our purest, truest selves”Master Ojas Oneness
When we are in a meditative state, instead of reacting immediately, we express ourselves to solve the problem. This is how we build our lives with wisdom.
Look around us, there are many houses, but we only notice and admire the houses with unique and creative architecture. Similar to building a house, we can use wisdom to build a home, a place full of warmth and joy so that everyone wants to be in this warm place full of healing energy.
A home is a place where there is little or no fear; where there are no conflicts, where all members always trust each other.
Maintain a regular family meditation practice, and then express it to each other. That’s how we build a solid foundation for our family’s sustainable lifestyle of mindfulness and happiness.
How to properly understand family problems?
- There are a lot of people who think that my problem is my family. But actually, the problem is not in our family but in the conditions in our thoughts. The assumptions we make are like poisons. Don’t make assumptions about something very quickly. Don’t give an opinion about a person too quickly. Don’t expect much from others because if family members don’t meet your expectations, you will be disappointed. Everyone needs time to realize what’s going on inside of them. Therefore, we need to learn to observe objectively, we will have the insight to release those stuck energy and solve family problems.
- There is unconsciousness in the family that manifests itself when our beloved ones are in trouble, we suffer as if we were in trouble. At that time, we unintentionally bring karma on ourselves, why do we need to double karma like that? This is their own pain, even as a family, but each person is a separate soul, individual and has its own lessons to learn. You can’t help them when you also accidentally get entangled in this karma and also become stuck and stuck in that pain, so how can you find a solution? There are many ways we can support our loved ones, and remember that we don’t have to carry their pain on our shoulders.
That’s why Master always remind us to become conscious
Ms. Ha – a participant in the program: “I used to be very helpless because I had many conflicts with my mother, but now I have a clear understanding of what Master is sharing”.
And finally, Master Ojas reminds us: Even if your family has much drama, cherish your family, be grateful to your family. Always do the best you can to bring wisdom and healing energy to your family and trust that family members are all unique and are doing the best they can.
By building a home, we are contributing to a better and happier society!Master Ojas Oneness