Question: Beloved Oneness, how to stay committed in a relationship but not attached to each other? 

Master Oneness answered: 

Commitment should come naturally and be an integral part of one’s life, not just a result of societal norms or personal beliefs. In today’s fast-paced and instant gratification society, maintaining a strong commitment in a relationship has become a significant challenge. Many individuals face this challenge but keep it hidden.

The fast-paced and instant lifestyle, with the abundance of options, is a key contributor to this difficulty in committing. People have become accustomed to the pattern of paying for instant gratification and quickly getting bored, whether it be with material items, food, or pleasure.

To cultivate a committed relationship, it is crucial to adopt a conscious lifestyle. Each person must have a clear understanding of what is enough for them and who holds a special place in their life. By embracing the art of feeling fulfilled, commitment in a relationship will come effortlessly. It is also important to break away from instant gratification habits and adopt a more minimalistic and dignified lifestyle.

Couples should also have a shared vision for their future and work towards their shared goals. Over time, attraction may fade, but working towards their vision, sharing the ups and downs of life, and celebrating each other’s accomplishments will create a strong bond that goes beyond attachment. Without this awareness, attachment can only be broken by death.

In conclusion, be mindful of your instant habits and fast-paced lifestyle, strive for a minimalistic and dignified life, learn to say “enough is enough,” and have a shared vision with your partner. Embrace every aspect of life, both the pains and gains, and remember that life is temporary. By living beyond attachment, a strong and lasting bond can be formed.

Question: Dear Master, can I find true love through online dating?

Master answers: 

Online dating is like searching for gold on every hill, as gold can only be found in certain hills or valleys. Trying to find gold everywhere you dig is a waste of energy and time, and it is rare to find true love online.

Online dating often leads to instant romance or even sex, but it lacks the foundation of trust which is essential for love and romance. Trust allows love and romance to happen naturally, while online dating starts with attraction, which is not enough to sustain a relationship in the long term.

The benefit of online dating is instant entertainment, and if you are lucky, you may find someone who can bring temporary quality time into your life. However, trust must first be established to turn that temporary quality time into a lifelong relationship.

Finding true love is not possible through online dating, it can only be found through one’s spirit. Living in integrity, embracing solo life. focusing on personal growth and self-discovery will attract true love into your life. When you are true to yourself and live in your spirit, your true love will eventually find you.

It is important to remember that true love cannot be forced or searched for externally.

It is a connection that naturally develops when two people are in alignment with each other on a deep level. By focusing on self-improvement and living a fulfilling life, you increase your chances of attracting true love into your life.

In conclusion, online dating may provide instant entertainment and temporary quality time, but it is not a sustainable solution for finding true love. True love is found through self-discovery and personal growth, and it is a connection that develops naturally when two people are in alignment with each other on a deep level.

Question: Dear Master, how to have romance moments with my partner when life is so rushed and busy with full of responsibility? 

Being romantic does not always mean indulging in cuddling in bed and cuddling is not the only form of romance.

Romance is a beautiful experience, an emotion, a feeling where a couple fully accepts each other, embracing both their flaws and virtues.

It can take many forms, such as unconditional sharing and selfless giving, humor and playful teasing without taking things personally, and sharing daily life experiences and wisdom. When a couple can joke with each other while maintaining dignity and respect, it is one of the most romantic things they can experience. Spending quality time learning each other’s values and perspectives helps deepen the understanding of each other’s essence and soul.

Distance does not hinder romance, as it is a feeling in the mind and trust in the heart. Creatively giving self-made gifts, volunteering together and supporting meaningful causes, and encouraging each other during tough times are also great ways to add romance to the relationship.

True love always finds a way to enjoy romance and it can be present in every moment, regardless of proximity. Busy life does not diminish the power of romance as long as it is nurtured and cherished.

About Master Oneness

Master Oneness is an enlightened Artist and Visionary of Oneness consciousness, who is spreading his light and wisdom to bring awakening energy to every artist’s life.

He teaches self-realization through TransformingArt, the unique technique that combines Art and meditation.

His 16-year experience in meditation enlightened him to the essence of art, which was the beginning of the Diviners organization. 

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