For individuals striving to transform their couple life and cultivate a conscious partnership, it’s essential to address common challenges that can strain a relationship. One of the most prevalent issues among couples is the struggle to understand each other, leading to frequent quarrels. This constant discord not only drains emotional nourishment and productivity but also causes couples to feel lost within their relationship.
The fundamental mistake that often leads to this stage can vary from one couple to another, as each relationship is unique.
However, there is a universal bridge that can help couples navigate these challenges: friendship. Think about your friendships outside of your romantic relationship. Even if your friends have their own quirks, patterns, or bad habits, you still cherish your friendship with them. Those imperfections do not disrupt your connection significantly.
Therefore, if you aim to transform your relationship, focus on deepening your love and finding common ground to be friends with your partner. Embrace the idea of being friends within your romantic relationship. Start by reflecting on the issues that strain your connection and make a conscious effort to show compassion and kindness to each other. Create a relaxed environment where both of you can engage in open and moderate conversations that won’t trigger defensive responses.
A crucial aspect of this transformation is changing the way you use words when communicating with your partner.
Words that blame or judge can exacerbate conflicts and create a hostile atmosphere. It’s important to recognize that using blame doesn’t necessarily mean your partner is at fault. When you point fingers, it becomes a two-way street where both partners start to acknowledge each other’s limitations, potentially leading to reciprocal blame. This cycle of blame can escalate conflicts like fire and gasoline.
Instead, when your partner makes a mistake or behaves in a hurtful manner, approach the situation mindfully. Seek to understand the root cause and discuss it in a non-blaming manner. By avoiding blame and focusing on understanding, you create a space for productive dialogue and resolution, ultimately strengthening your bond as a conscious couple.
In summary, the path to transforming your couple life and becoming a conscious couple involves cultivating friendship within your relationship, embracing compassion and kindness, and changing the way you communicate by avoiding blame and judgment. By following these principles, you can foster a deeper connection and navigate challenges more
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