Love is something that all of us often yearn for because it helps us feel the divine happiness of life. Many great things created in this world are rooted in the power of love.
However, is love always a sweet aftertaste only? Obviously many people have already tasted the bitter fruits. How about love? No, love is not the same if we truly understand it.
We often try to find love to fill the emptiness and loneliness within us. We want to find someone who cares for us while expecting to be loved and cherished forever. Yet everything is impermanent, especially the wishes from the outside. The more we expect, the more likely we are to be disappointed.
Therefore, we blame love for our suffering?
All the root of problems come from within us, because we are not clear about ourselves.Let’s start by cultivating love for yourself!
Then, we will know how to bring happiness to ourselves without being emotionally dependent on the other person. We don’t put the pressure of expectations on our loved ones. Therefore, we give them and ourselves freedom.
When we do, we feel complete and give everything we got unconditionally. Our hearts flutter when we see them shine. We try to make that person happy without any expectation in return.
Moreover, we don’t just sit and wait for the sweet fruit but we actively nurture the seeds. That is the right way for us to receive true, complete and lasting love!
Let’s cultivate self-love first and give your good unconditionally!You are the source of love!
Comment below any idea you can do to cultivate a love for yourself. By the way, don’t forget to share this lesson with your loved ones. We all deserve to be happy in love.