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Day 98: Integrity and perfectionism both look the same but are the same – Message from Master Oneness

Integrity and perfectionism are often viewed as positive qualities, but they are not the same. While integrity is a key element of personal character, perfectionism can be a limiting and self-destructive trait

Integrity is the quality of being honest, trustworthy, and consistent in one’s actions and beliefs. It involves having a strong moral compass and living by one’s values. When someone has integrity, they are true to themselves and to others, even in difficult circumstances.

On the other hand, perfectionism is the tendency to strive for flawlessness and to set unreasonably high standards for oneself. While it may seem like a desirable quality, it can lead to unrealistic expectations, constant self-criticism, and a fear of failure. In extreme cases, perfectionism can lead to anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues.

An analogy for this concept could be a person climbing a mountain. Integrity is like the climbing rope that keeps the person safe and anchored as they climb higher. It provides a sense of security and stability, even in challenging conditions. Perfectionism, on the other hand, is like a heavy backpack that the person is carrying up the mountain. While it may contain useful tools and equipment, it also adds unnecessary weight and makes the climb more difficult and exhausting than it needs to be.

Similarly, a metaphor for this concept could be a plant growing in a garden. Integrity is like the soil that nourishes and supports the plant as it grows. It allows the plant to thrive and reach its full potential. Perfectionism, on the other hand, is like the constant pruning and shaping of a plant to make it look a certain way. While it may result in a beautiful and symmetrical plant, it can also stunt its growth and limit its potential.

While integrity and perfectionism may appear similar on the surface, they have distinct differences. Integrity is a vital component of personal character, while perfectionism can be a limiting and self-destructive trait. By understanding these differences, we can strive for integrity while avoiding the pitfalls of perfectionism.

“The Thin Line Between Integrity and Perfectionism: Understanding the Key Differences”

Integrity and perfectionism may appear similar because they both involve setting high standards and expectations for oneself. Both qualities are often associated with excellence and a desire to do one’s best.

Additionally, both integrity and perfectionism can involve a sense of control. People with integrity may strive to maintain control over their actions and ensure they align with their values and beliefs. Similarly, people with perfectionism may try to control their environment, their work, or their personal appearance to ensure that everything is flawless.

However, the key difference between the two is the motivation behind the pursuit of excellence. While integrity is driven by a desire to act in accordance with one’s values and beliefs, perfectionism is driven by a fear of failure or a need for external validation. Perfectionism often involves constantly striving for an unattainable standard, while integrity is focused on consistency in one’s actions and beliefs.

How to eliminate perfectionism from integrity:

Perfectionism and integrity are often intertwined, and it can be difficult to separate them completely. However, there are some steps you can take to minimize the negative impact of perfectionism on your pursuit of integrity:

  1. Focus on the process, not just the outcome: Instead of focusing solely on achieving a perfect result, focus on the steps you are taking to align your actions with your values and beliefs. Celebrate the progress you make, rather than just the end result.
  2. Set realistic expectations: Perfectionism often involves setting unattainable standards. Instead, set realistic expectations for yourself and your actions. Recognize that mistakes are a natural part of the learning process and that they do not define your worth.
  3. Practice self-compassion: When you make a mistake or fall short of your expectations, treat yourself with kindness and understanding. Acknowledge your efforts and the progress you have made, and remember that mistakes and imperfections are part of being human.
  4. Seek feedback: Getting feedback from others can help you gain perspective and adjust your actions to align better with your values and beliefs. However, make sure to seek constructive feedback from trustworthy sources, and avoid comparing yourself to others.
  5. Let go of the need for external validation: Perfectionism often stems from a desire for external validation and approval. Instead, focus on finding satisfaction and fulfillment in your actions and values, rather than seeking validation from others.

Remember, eliminating perfectionism completely may not be realistic, but taking steps to minimize its negative impact on your pursuit of integrity can help you live a more fulfilling and authentic life.

About Master Oneness

Master Oneness is an enlightened Artist and Visionary of Oneness consciousness, who is spreading his light and wisdom to bring awakening energy to every artist’s life.

He teaches self-realization through Transforming Art, the unique technique that combines Art and meditation.

His 16-year experience in meditation enlightened him to the essence of art, which was the beginning of the Diviners organization. 

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