The Art of Avoiding Conflict and the Art of Going Through Conflict:
Always be mature enough to eliminate the conflicts in advance in your relationships, whether they are personal or business-related.
Two different and opposite perceptions, beliefs, and opinions will lead to conflict.
Your obsession with unconscious bias creates conflict and discomfort with each other.
To eliminate the conflict, first make sure you don’t expect anything from others. Life is diverse, and everyone’s focus and view could be different.
Learn about your partner, friend, or colleague, and unconditionally understand their psychology and habits. Train yourself to have gentle and conscious communication with your partner or friend. Make sure to be realistic rather than try to be good and suppress your feelings.
You express your truth and accept others’ truth
When you have enough compassion in your heart to deal with any conflict smoothly, compassion allows you to handle things beyond bias.
Have a fresh sense of seeing things from moment to moment without labeling anyone.
There is an unconscious bias in you; once you find someone’s mistakes, you always see them through the same memory. That memory may cause a confirmation bias in you, resulting in an incorrect understanding or misunderstanding.
Be aware to explore the realities thoroughly and put your tongue in control
When you speak out about something without proper evidence, that shows how biased you are.
The key to mature relationships or friendships is unconditional acceptance, lower expectations, new perceptions, and being present in the present moment.
There may be times when you and your business partners disagree about decision-making, profit sharing, or responsibilities.
In the business field, conflict takes place where there is no detailed agreement or proper system.
Business means constant updating. When you are in business, everything needs to be clear. When everything clears day-to-day turnovers, there will be no conflict in the business.
But conflict arises when you don’t communicate or update on time.
If you or your partner don’t follow the agreements and guidelines effectively, pushing everything until the end and procrastinating will lead to terrible conflicts.
- So, in the business field, make sure to enthusiastically communicate on time when something is not appropriate. Have the patience to handle critical things.
- Trust and Keep an eagle’s eye on each other and maintain conscious communication.
- When your partner or colleague does not perform well in their job. Have compassion towards them and inspire them on how to do things, in case you can’t do something properly, ask for support without hesitation.
Conflict is not a bad thing when you procrastinate on time learning; you need to learn things through conflicts if you still don’t learn them and update yourself soon before conflict turns into brokenness.
The “wise” person keeps things in alignment before any conflict arises.
An “average” person learns and updates him/herself after the conflict arises,
An “ignorant” keep procrastinating and escaping and finally ends up broke,
And a “spoiled” person becomes addicted when he is broke.
Make sure you are a wise person who has alignment in communication and eliminates conflicts in advance by being very clear and realistic in communication from time to time.
Express yourself keenly, communicate keenly, follow up keenly, and have compassion in all your actions. You will master the conflicts.
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