Trust is the most essential thing for our greatest expansion.
Why is having trust a big issue in the world?
There is a huge gap between essence and self.
Trust unifies everything and leads to alignment.
Trust only happens when a person tunes into his or her inner essence.
Essence is natural and intuitive; you don’t need to go to university or strive to get certificates to have your essence.
Essence is the quality of the soul. Your essence reveals how mature or amateur a soul you are.
Your essence is filled with wisdom and trust if you are a mature soul.
When you only live in your habits you are a baby soul and you can’t access your essence.
What is the difference between essence and habits?
Essence and habits look the same, but they are different in their foundation.
A habit is your constant repetition and all your habits may not be healthy or lead you in the right direction.
Essence is something beyond your habits, but at the same time you are embedded into it.
Essence is a value that never ages or becomes outdated..
Essence is the origin of everything.
For example, water and oxygen are vital essences of the human body,
Trees are a vital essence of life. Without trees, life on earth becomes dependent on authorities who can control you with the supply of precious oxygen.
As a human being, you are born with values and essence, when you are embedded with your essence your trust lives effortlessly.
In effect, the indication is that if you don’t have trust in the world and family, you are disconnected from the essence within.
When you travel or go to some foreign destination everyone looks strange. People may look suspiciously. You may feel fearful and insecure about losing a possession.
Where there is no trust there will cause stress and depression.
Trust is the most essential thing for great expansion.
- When love is embedded with trust, it becomes purified as unconditional love.
- When friendship is embedded with trust, it becomes purified as a great friendship.
- When business is embedded with ethical value trust among employees, clients, and the community, it will become purified as healthy business.
Without trust, there the health of our love, friendships, partnerships and business all suffer irrespectively of how well we do in these areas.
- Without trust, love is possessive/controlling.
- Without trust, friendship is a shallow connection.
- Without trust, business is an unhealthy manipulation.
- Without trust, the partnership is a toxic dependency.
Trust is the most valuable thing we ever experience in the world.
We calculate a countries’ values based on its GDP.
Instead of GDP, we need to calculate trust and mental health (Joy and bliss).
May that nation be a perfect example of holistic and living with greater actualization among all.
The Formula: Give trust to the world and you will receive it back.
What goes around comes around.
Many people misunderstand trust and dependency. From beyond trust and dependency look similar, but the essence that create the sensations of purity in them are anything but the same.
Dependency is the conditioning because there is a lacking of being self-sufficient, and as good of intentions to fulfilling your purpose as you might have, you haven’t the skills for sustainable living. Or you just want to live a safe and comfortable life without taking accountability.
On other hand, Trust compliments 100% accountability, and it inspires everyone to live with integrity.
Whether you are overly dependent on someone else and a capable and stable adult but choose not to stand on your own feet, or when you are living in trust you are in a relationship with a person or group. Each looks the same from the outside, but fundamentally are different.
Has someone ever come into your life with a trust in them only to find they have cheated or betrayed in some way?
You may have given all your trust in them with a return they for some reason they chose to depend on you without their trust in you.
Trust is the combination of unconditional acceptance and conscious communication.
If you’re sad because someone cheated, just because you have no acceptance and conscious communication with them. That’s your lesson of integrity, not their problem.
If you give unconditional trust towards them, there’s a greater chance they will melt in your presence, they will never have a chance to cheat you because you are giving trust to them.
A wise person once said ‘if you fall into someone’s fraud that’s your stupidity and not that person’s fault.’
The art of giving trust to the people and in the world:
- Connect with everyone from their being not because of their labels.
- Connect from essence to essence.
- Live in your originality and express your truth that will filter the right persons to receive your trust.
- Don’t follow the masses and trends, follow your heart and intuition.
- Keep doing what really gives you fulfillment, and don’t limit the self because of your fears.
- Open yourself for expansion, new experiences, and new learnings.
- Be detailed and conscious in every part of your communication.
- Listen to everyone deeply and accurately.
- When you can see reality as it is, you will become a master in giving trust.
The art of teaching trust to children:
Give clarity to your children on the importance of trusting life and themselves.
Parents and the government system always say don’t trust strangers, but one thing they’re forgetting is that you are also a stranger to someone. It creates an unfortunate paradox of insecurity.
Instead of saying don’t trust the stranger, you need to train or guide your children on how to trust strangers and having healthy boundaries in the process of trusting.
There is no one right way to practice or educate the art of trusting. That’s why the world is filled with stress, depression, and mental illness.
All children should have the right guidance on how to trust.
Never say to children; don’t trust strangers. Secluding children from taking a small healthy chance of meeting someone new under the right circumstances in a safe environment will stop them trusting whatever things appear strange. Even sometimes parents’ behavior can appear strange to them. Unfortunately as children are smarter and more open minded than ever, many children don’t trust their parents. As children get older into their teen years, mistrusting behaviors and not taking chances to meet new unfamiliar experiences, people, and behaviors, they are more likely to become introverts and don’t express anything genuinely with family and their community.
Need to say:
The stranger is just a person like you,
you are also a stranger to someone.
Don’t need to hesitate with strangers, respect them as a human.
at the same time be aware all humans are not the same; some may have deceiving intentions. Observe everything in detail and ask questions. If you feel someone is suspicious let your parents know immediately or don’t commit with them.
Respectfully ignore their offerings.
In this way, we need to guide the children about the art of trusting.
You have to sit and listen to your children carefully and observe how they perceive the world.
If they are accumulating any fears or insecurities this is a good opportunity need to give them guidance. Let them reflect to understand the reality in all its forms and essence.
Never find a shortcut to make life better. Life needs to go through reflections and a series of events and experiences.
Then only the ultimate trust will develop within you and your family.