The inner child or “the forever lover”
“Hey the world, what is love?”– is the sentence that drunk guys often ask while wandering in an alley. Later, this legendary saying was turned into a movie, and so the whole world believed in having to find love. But the truth is, that drunk guy has a problem with his “inner child”, if we lose connection with ourselves we will be “drunk” or any similar state like: anger, fear, avoidance, suppression, discomfort, expectations, etc., without daring to face our true self. We always feel inadequate, hesitant in our life decisions, that’s when the inner conflict takes place on a large scale, we don’t know whether we should move forward or backward.
So, is there an emptiness that needs to be filled?
Will we choose to fill that “hole” with material or spiritual? Make a lot of money, have a lot of assets, have promising relationships, dream jobs, crave love or be a hero to save the world. It sounds extraordinary and admirable, but allow yourself to turn around and look deep into your eyes.
Are you really satisfied, do you really know enough, because “full people” rarely run after “food”.
Will we choose to fill the “spoiled tiger” with what we have had for a long time? We are just forgetting and neglecting ourselves. Having a child in his childhood “screaming”, needing to be cared for in his mother’s lap, as simple as a “sweet lullaby” in the cool summer noon also makes us magically happy.
The choice is yours, people are forced to grow up whether they want to or not like a tree has to sprout, produce leaves, small trees, and larger trees.However, one thing that never changes is that the tree always sticks its “roots” into the ground.
Similarly, if you put your “roots” deeply into your inner self, nurture it carefully, you will never have to silently sing the song “Hey the world, what is love?” by ignorance, clinging to the external environment but not the love where oneself resides.
Why can’t you make a poem for yourself?
Why don’t you try to be naked in front of the mirror, but touch each of your own skin, to know how much of the genealogical memory of the Ancestors is showing up on this body?
Why can’t you plan a date with yourself, take some time for yourself, pamper yourself with candles and flowers, and treat yourself like a God?
Keep loving your baby regularly to grow up in a healthier way.If you want to lie on the grass, inhale the smell of the earth, then do what you really want, don’t let anything stop you. Because you are healing yourself, cry if you want to cry, laugh if you want to laugh and explore the world like a “child”.
Let’s connect around and still embrace your heart. Then we realize, every moment is like a baby being born again – did you know this is the secret to staying forever young like two people in love, they always look full of passion and charm. You just need a deep friendship with yourself, you should be a “lover” for thousands of lives with yourself, no one can ever take that away. All experiences pass away, when we stay with ourselves, new experiences exist, we transform and merge with our artistic “child”.
The blissful feeling of your love melts into space!
Do you “smell” your scent yet?! HAHAHA!
The writer: TransformingArt practitioner – Oni