Are we living a mechanical life?
Wake up in the morning to go to work, think about the duty that needs to be done during the day, drag home, get too tired, go out to find entertainment.
Why do we have to do these things? For money? For the sake of children? For family?
Are we doing it for other people, but mistreating ourselves? Is that how you’re building your home?
What is Home to you?
Home is a place to nurture and energize you.
A home is a place that allows life to go on as it is. Both pain and pleasure are accepted. It gives us a chance to expand and discover ourselves. As you can only give gave you have.
When you do not have either inner peace or abundant energy, what will your child get from you?
Do you think that having a lot of money is an answer for your children’s happiness? Of course, money is important because it is a tool for exchange. However, there is always a way for us to work with money.
Ask yourself, are you living in a home or just a house?
Without nurturing, a house cannot become a home.
You may have many reasons: I have a lot of responsibilities in the family, I don’t have time to think about it. Is that right?
Do you think you still have to make a living?
Let me tell you why you need to stop this thought
If you are not responsible for yourself, how can you take responsibility for your family? When you do not have a complete life, how can you nurture the happiness of your home? However, nurturing yourself is not an easy task as many people around you promote a life of sacrifice for others. You will probably be judged. If you don’t recognize the problem and have the courage to live your own life, will you be rich with only money?
Do you have a mental health problem? Are you nourishing your family’s root of happiness to make your house turn home?
Why do you need to know how to build a home properly?
Because when you have a home, you will have these wonderful things:
- Have a deep faith in yourself.
- Have trust from our loved ones. Therefore, whenever we meet each other, we feel supported instead of feeling conflicted and uncomfortable.
- There will be still arguements, but no deadlock. There are no ups and downs, quarrels, negative emotions. After all, we realize the important life lessons to improve yourself.
If deep down inside, you doubt your wife or your husband, your house will never become a home. One hand cannot make a clap. If you keep repeating the chorus “I don’t have time”, it will obviously be: when you don’t have quality time for yourself, the time you spend with others is not quality. No matter what you do, you will only feel more tired in this relationship.
Every time you listen to yourself: I’m tired, I have a lot of work, I don’t have time, let’s try to ask ourselves, is this really like that or is it just an illusion?
Do you want to live in a house, or in a home?
Comment here your answer along with one action you will take to build your home. Moreover, if you find this post valuable, please share with your loved ones and family. We all want to live in a happy home, don’t we?