The three words “I love you” are very familiar to all of us. In the evolution of humanity, there has always been the presence of love, but we are gradually making love complicated. We are always looking for love, wanting love to be our own by binding each other.
But …The truth is that love cannot grow if it is confined to possession.
We often tend to control our partner because we feel insecure. Because we don’t trust each other. We easily become insecure when there is something unusual about the other, even if it is only a small thing. We always want to be able to know them all, both thoughts and behaviors, so that everything is always under control… You give that person all your energy and it can gradually run out. Then, he will also feel suffocated in a tight embrace one day,… where will love go in that loop?
Don’t love with a lack of mind and a desire to be compensated.
Because if we are a crescent moon, it is very difficult to find the right piece from another crescent moon, because no one is the same and people change. But when we are a full moon, we will shine brightly and attract another one so that we can shine each other more brightly.
Love always needs the volunteering of both to start, and it takes trust to develop. Each of us is different, and that makes life special, so respect the difference and let them be themselves.
Freedom and sincerity will make love blossom and grow stronger. Love is an art of giving.
To understand the essence of that art, you need to be the first to practice. To learn to love others, you need to learn to love yourself first. To understand the psychology and emotions of your companion, you need to understand yours first. To build trust in each other, you need to learn to believe in yourself first. To be able to bring happiness to others, you need to learn to bring it to yourself first.
So, practice self-love by taking time to meditate each day, say words of self-love, do things that make you feel peaceful and happy. When love comes, you will accept it, take it easy and see it as what makes your life more sublime, not struggling to hold on to it.
Comment below how you feel about love and share this lesson with your loved one. That will help both of you know how to nurture the predestined relationship and make it more sublime.