Let this Tet be a truly meaningful celebration!
Because it gives us the possibility to meet our families and friends. Vietnamese cities and houses are specially decorated with peach blossom flowers, red tassels, and cheerful faces.
In any celebration, children find it more joyful than adults, and children’s enjoyment is free from the toxic culture that is accustomed.
Children don’t drink alcohol and don’t need to chat about all the unnecessary political stuff and comparisons.
They don’t need to make special adjustments and there is no mind of class differences.
Children enjoy the pure joy!
Let this Tet become toxic-free:
There is no need to drink alcohol to celebrate life, if that is the real intention to celebrate, every child needs to drink alcohol.
So fundamentally, it proves that alcohol is not necessary to consume to celebrate life.
The commercial corporate company has programmed you to have a toxic social style.
Why shouldn’t animals enjoy the TET as much as you do:
Every animal deserves life until its natural death. just like you and me.
All beings deserve a natural death. Not only humans.
Spread your joy and blessings to the animal kingdom, at least during Tet.
How rich you are is not on your eating plate, your richness exists in your heart.
How much compassion your heart has for everyone shows your richness.
Having a lot of food including meat, in the home and feeling rich is an outdated, unconscious trend.
The real food is not raised. It’s grown naturally.
Animals should be raised like responsibly sustainable humans.
Only plants are grown.
You can make your celebration very rich with lots of vegetarian and vegan items.
There’s no need for blooded animals in your kitchen.
Remember that animals have the right to live until they die naturally.
Conscious Tet with Your Family and Children:
Let children express their inner feelings and what kind of family they wish to have.
What type of father and mother do they want to see?
If a hurtful situation has occurred in the past, apologise to each other.
Saying thank you, and apologizing to each family member will improve transparency and vulnerability in children.
Children become more responsible and accountable.
Let your children and family know what a true blessing it is to have. This comes in a time when so many people are experiencing various crises.
When children know the value they have in their lives, they will never take it for granted when they grow up.
Parents need to create an environment in such a way that children can see the value in everything consciously.
Don’t become busy and distracted by watching entertainment shows and videos; let’s create some new artistic creativity with your family members.
Dance together, play, and create new family games. When your family directly creates some artistic expression, it will improve your family spirit.
You will understand each other’s spirit.
In Tet, you will go everywhere to see decorations in the city and make wishes for each other. Let your children learn how to appreciate the efforts of others’ creations. When children have the art of appreciating, they will improve their leadership qualities and also grow faster in their creativity and innovation.
Share with children about your ancestors’ greatness and how they sacrificed their lives to build a new generation.
That gives your children a sense of honour and leadership.
As a couple, may you go through ups and downs.
After a long journey, may you guys still feel some gap.
During Tet, evaluate your lifestyle objectively. Trust in each other and make some new healthy habits together to create the right environment for you as a romantic couple and for your children.
Examples of a conscious and healthy lifestyle:
Stop arguing and competing in the ego games in In front of children. It only causes you and you partner stress, mistrust, and unease.
Father and mother need to respect each other if children need to respect their parents.
Remember, children don’t only listen to your words; they listen more carefully to your actions.
During Tet, sit down with your husband or wife to make a plan to eliminate any unconscious or unhealthy habits in the family.
Just as you would clean your house before Tet, you should also filter your unhealthy lifestyle.
What is the big difference if you only clean your home, cook delicious food, and give gifts to your family members – But don’t filter any family habits?
Without filtering unhealthy and unconscious habits in the family, no matter if you do another dozen Tet celebrations, nothing will change.
The most important thing is not about cleaning the house and doing those superstitious traditions to bring good luck each year.
The most important thing is to clean up your habits and transform to a more conscious way of life.
When you gather with each other and offer to bless money or gifts, do it from the heart.
Don’t think too much or fall into prestige.
Your celebration should not depend on others’ judgment.
This is TET; be free with your inner child; let go of all ego; and enjoy the flow.
Spend your Tet in ways that are not based on judgment, comparison, or harbouring negative feelings toward someone.
Reflect on your life, and how deeply you are living.
What are the things you need to accomplish and have a practical strategy for your future endeavors?
When you have a visionary map, steps and strategies, and goal-setting, you will not be distracted by anyone’s judgments or huddles in life.
Have joyful, conscious Tet moments. May abundance, healing, and wisdom pass to you.